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~*~ sam ~*~ Five Star
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| Subject: ~*~ Friendship Tips On Friendship Day ~*~ 2008-08-02, 01:23 | |
| You have read ''Love Tips'' by my a post & Now here are
Tips of True Friendship I'm requesting to you , Please , Read this very carefully & Make your life joyful. You'll get lot of Happiness in your life. Its my again promise.Why we need friends in our life.Friendships are the gift to the man kind. The relation which we get in this world are blood related. But the only relationships which doesnot related to blood is friendship. Friendship has many forms and shapes. It is like water. If we pour the water into a jug it takes the shape of jug. if you pour the same water into a bowl it takes the shape o bowl. Same way friendships will take a different shapes and sizes according to our heart. Friendship gives pleasure to human beings. Where there is friendship then there will not be any sorrow. When you see a child laughing you will forget your sorrows for a second, sameway when you are with a friend you forget your sorrows.
Of course, some people are perfectly happy to operate with fewer friends. They might rather have a few deep and loyal friends, than many superficial ones. Others thrive best when friends are everywhere and numerous. It is not so much the number of friends that is important as is the possession of friends, period. Loyal and deep friendship is good. It doesn't care about the numbers, Even if you have one loyal trustable friend. it is better than to have hundreds of untrustable, superficial friends. With the trusted friends we can discuss our problem areas and get ideas for solving them also. These friends share their time with us to solve problems. But when you have lots of friends who are not loyal or trustable it is the case of the person who is not having any friends. Even after having hundreds of friends our mind can't able to find real, trustable friends.Friendship is a blessing... Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends will cheer us when we're sorrowful or depressed. Friends will challenge us to attain our orginal limits with encouragement when we allow ourselves not to go beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends will motivate us when we're ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. Friends are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life's pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around, to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily. When you act silly with friends around they also comes and join you and get the enjoyment that you are getting. In the dictionary of friendship there is no word named sorrow. Friends will enter into that word and friends break the word into peices. They motivate us to attain our goal. They will stand by our side when you need a support.
Friendship is everlasting... Friendship is only everlasting feature in this world. There may be biggest miracle which can change the entire world but even in that miracle also friendship will come out from its sleep. Friendship is like a banyan tree. Banyan tree seed is very small, but when it comes out of earth nothing can stop its growth. The same applies to friendship also. Friendship will reside in our heart like the banyan tree seed. When it finds the correct soil in another heart it starts its growth. at one stage when you get more friendly with that person it will become tree after that nothing in this world can stop it. Friends will try to find new ways to make you not to fall. Friends may not save but they never let you go to deep. Friends find innovative ways to stop you from falling and try to get some more help to lift you.
Friendship is courage... Friends, They are the only source of our brave hearts. When we don't have any friends we won't come out when there is a trouble. But when we have friends with us, We never sit inside during a friend is in problem. We may not be brave but friendship gives courage to our mind and body. Friends will save us from any situations. Friends will help us to escape from big troubles. Friends will come front to solve the problems. Friendship never knows to runaway during problems. A good friend stays when there is problem and goes after the problem solves.We can tell a lot about friendship and friends. You may have a lot of friends but try to get a friend who is loyal, trustable to us and be like that to your friend also. That is the only meaning of friendship. "BE LOYAL AND TRUSTABLE".
How to Make Our Friendship Work:1. Responsibility:First and foremost, each one of us needs to take responsibility for our own needs, feelings, attitudes and behaviors.
EVEN when it may appear easier to blame the other person.
I keep reminding myself, if something exists in my life, then I must have created it in some way. I also remember, when I am aware of a problem and you aren't - it is always MY responsibility, either to solve
the problem, or at the very least to make you aware of the problem, so we can become partners in solving it. 2. Respect, Care and Compassion: Respect means, no matter what state or place you are in and what state or place I am - I respect myself and I respect you! To care is to see what you need and being willing to give it (don't confuse what your friend needs with what your friend wants - they are not the same).
Compassion is the ability to see you as you are without judgment, whilst asking myself, "why are you acting this way?" and "what can I do to support you?" 3. Exploration: We keep our relationship healthy through active exploration and mutual understanding of each other. For me this means sharing adventures together, taking risks together, learning from the experiences and giving
each other feedback so as to share the wisdom we both accumulated.4. Positivity: Simply put, it is always going for solutions. We can confront any difficulty or crisis easily when we
work as a team at the solution.
We go nowhere, when we become opponents or competitors or when we blame or undermine each other.5. Confrontation: Our friendship is mature and strong when
we can confront each other on important issues. Through genuine confrontation we can become aware and deal with our withholds, contracts and hidden agendas.
If you can relate to these principles, why don't you share
them with a friend? See if both of you can reach an agreement on most or all of them.These principles can give your friendship a solid base,
which will create both safety and uplift.
Enjoy your friendship !!
Making happy friendshipsMake yourself look happy with your friends and your friends will reflect. That is the secret of happy friendship. Our emotions are reflected in our body language. The reverse is equally true. Does this help us? It does. It can change our state of mind by changing our physical state. For example, if you are feeling bored, try to look cheerful and you will start becoming cheerful. It is strange, but it works. If you are feeling sad, try to look happy. You will find the sadness going away. Isn't it great?How do we talk with friends?Happiness also depends on what do we talk with our friends. Are we always talking of our own life or do we also listen to them. Listening is the best way to make friends happy. Listen and do it carefully. No pretensions. Your friends will be happy that someone heard them out without interruption. You will also be making your friendship stronger. Listening is very good. By listening, we make the other person feel important. we also make him/her feel happy and relieved. By talking things out, one feels relieved.
Give and you shall receive- the third law of Newton. Apply this law in your life and make happy friends. You can make them happy right now by telling them about how much you appreciate their friendship. Listening to your friends, keeping a happy state of mind in their company and appreciating the friendship will make happy friends. Make your life happier and your
relationships stronger with happy friends
When friendship comes from the heart it forms a link to our soul that cannot be broken. It connects so strongly that even death does not sever the cord. That type of friendship exists forever in the realm of wonder for true friendship is genuinely a wondrous thing. It connects the physical with the spiritual and creates an energy that is impossible to describe.
Friendship is a path of unrelenting compassion. It is a view of life that encompasses not just your life but the life of the other. It is a special bond that is created out of genuine affection and is given freely to those who have shown their truth. It is given without the thought of reward but with the essence of the heart which longs for this special connection When you look at your true friends you will uncover who you are. You will see a reflection of your soul and will in turn become educated in the pathway you follow. You will see your world before you and will see without any doubts the truth of your way. You see true friends are simply your self in disguise. By uncovering that disguise you see before your eyes the world you created and the being your have become. Love You Dost
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| | | Heena khan Five Star
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| | | | ~*~ sam ~*~ Five Star
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| | | NancY Five Star
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| Subject: Re: ~*~ Friendship Tips On Friendship Day ~*~ 2008-08-03, 02:32 | |
| True Friendship
True friendship isn't seen with the eyes, it is felt with the heart. When there is trust, understanding, loyalty, and sharing. True friendship is a rare feeling, but when it is found It has profound impact on our well-being, strength, and character. True friendship does not need elaborate gifts Or spectacular events in order to be valuable or valued. To ensure long-lasting quality and satisfaction, True friendship only needs a few key ingredients: Undying loyalty, unmatched understanding, unsurpassed trust, Deep and soulful secrets, and endless sharing. These ingredients, mixed with personality and a sense of humor, Can make a friendship last a lifetime! This is just a thank you, my friend, for all the wonderful and colorful Special ingredients You've brought to my life! Pass this on to such a friend!
I'll Be Here
I cannot ease your aching heart, Nor take your pain away; But let me stay and take your hand And walk with you today.
I'll listen when you need to talk, I'll wipe away your tears; I'll share your worries when they come, I'll help you face your fears.
I'm here and I will stand by you, On each hill you have to climb; So take my hand, let's face the world... And live just one day at a time.
You're not alone, for I'm still here, I'll go that extra mile; And when your grief is easier, I'll help you learn to smile!
The Friend Who Just Stands By When troubles come your soul to try, You love the friend who just stands by. Perhaps there's nothing she can do, The thing is strictly up to you.
For there are troubles all your own, And paths the soul must tread alone. Times when love can't smooth the road, Nor friendship lift the heavy load.
But just to feel you have a friend, Who will stand by until the end. Whose sympathy through all endures, Whose warm handclasp is always yours.
It helps somehow to pull you through, Although there's nothing she can do. And so with fervent heart we cry, God Bless the friend who just stands by.
]What Is A Friend?
A friend is somebody Who knows you and likes you Exactly the way that you are.
Someone who's special And so close in thought That no distance can ever seem far.
A friend understands you Without any words, Stands by you When nothing goes right.
And willingly talks Over problems with you Till they somehow Just vanish from sight.
And whether you're neighbors Or live miles apart, A word from a friend gives a lift To your heart and spirit.
That shows you once more Why friendship is life's dearest gift ]Too True, Too Often Too often we don't realize What we have until it is gone Too often we wait too late to say "I'm sorry - I was wrong." Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones We hold dearest to our hearts And we allow foolish things To tear our lives apart. Far too many times we let Unimportant things into our minds And then it's usually too late To see what made us blind. So be sure that you let people know How much they mean to you Take that time to say the words Before your time is through. Be sure that you appreciate Everything you've got And be thankful for the little things in life that mean a lot | |
| | | ~*~ sam ~*~ Five Star
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| | | Tuli Five Star
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| Subject: Re: ~*~ Friendship Tips On Friendship Day ~*~ 2008-08-03, 18:53 | |
| True friends are for life Until the end........... They're more than special.......... They're your bestest friends. They're the ones you can go to When you're in despair........... The ones that'll help you Even when you got gum in your hair!!!!!!!!! They're the ones who'll laugh And go laughing with you all through the night......... The ones who'll help you Help you with all their might........ To have a good friend You have to be one So be nice to one another So you can be friends forever And that's how to be the best friend you can be. | |
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