!!!!!! Need help frm frds !!!!

Subject: !!!*!!! Need help frm frds !!*!! 2008-06-10, 17:24

Hi friends...

bahut dino se main soch rahi thi...

ke agar koyi aapna accha dost hamse juth kahe aisa nahi hai ek baar ya do baar

but always...to humme kya karna chahiye uske juth ko ingor ya fir usse dur chale jana chahiye..

yaha ladka ya ladki baat nahi hai sirf ek FREIND ki baat hai.....well me asking you this bcoz jab mera dil kisi cheez ke liye nahi manta main kitna bhi hurt ho jau fir bhi main try karti hu usse dur jane ki....
par maine us friend se promiss kiya hai i wont her leav ever...

I like to know ur point of view if aap hote to kya karte...

baar baar hurt hote uski baato or juth se ya dur chale jate...

Just rember while answering if will leav her will leav ths forum too

spe i wanna asnwer frm AJAY,NANCY DI,NIR,RAJ n saniya.....baki sab k reply ka b intezaar hai

Subject: hi.. 2008-06-10, 17:39

Main agar hota, to use 2-3 baar samajhaata, phir bhi agar nahi samajhti/samajhta, to use chhodkar door chala jata.. bcoz i just hate liers...

Guest

:flower: Hi Heena, :flower:

Be Cool Yaar !!!!
Tumne jo likha hai use dhayan
se padne ke baad lagta hai ki vo tumhara/tumhari bahut achcha/achchi
friend hai. Agar vo jhooth bol raha/rahi hai tou jarur koi reason hoga.
Try to find out the basic cause of his/her telling lies. Ho sakta hai
abhi vo tumhe na bta sake, lekin achcha dost hai tou sahi waqt aane par
jarur batayega. Have patience . Try to keep yourself busy in some other
things. Tum bahut achcha likhti ho. Lekin tumhari jyada poems love aur
sadness par dekhi hain. kuch masti wala likhne ki koshish karo. Aur tum
apne aap ko itna weak kaise bna sakti ho ki koi tumhe hurt kar sake?
Try to learn ignoring small things in life. Itni strong bano ki tumhare
friends tumhe hurt karne se pahle sochein ki yaar kise hurt karne
chaley hain???? Ispar tou asar hi nahi hota hai. I know you are smiling.

Aise hi smile karti raho. Just wait and watch. Meri baat achchi na lagi ho tou padker bhool jana.
With Love
Runjhun
Angel Of Happiness :flower:

Subject: Re: !!!*!!! Need help frm frds !!*!! 2008-06-10, 18:11

Hi Dear Heena,
First all you have to find if she/he is joking with you
or coz joking can be done with there best friends
so how can u be far from ur friends
and they loves u soo they want to be friendly
and the reason must of lying coz ur friend not want to lose u
its you have to trust them
and have faith on her /him
coz our friend love us and dont want to lose u
dear

Subject: ......:)..... 2008-06-10, 18:37

hi heena
yaar inni saari tension mat le....

i can only say dat....leave dat person....
cos' friendship that z dependent on lies never gives happiness

--
It is NOT because
things are DIFFICULT
that we do NOT DARE

it is because
we do NOT DARE
that things are DIFFICULT.

:~) cheers! :~)

SURUCHI JAIN

Subject: Re: !!!*!!! Need help frm frds !!*!! 2008-06-10, 19:11

Quote :: HEENA ABHI TO APP SIRF 18 YEARS KI HO AUR ABHI SAY HIMMAT HAR DO GI TO AGAY TO IS SAY BHI BADI PROBLEMS AYE GI....(GUDIYA)...LIFE KO FACE KARNA SIKHO SACH YA JHOOT JO BHI ..
FRIENDS BOHAT MUSHKIL SAY MILTAY HAY ...SPECIALLY TRUE FRIENDS..AUR KABI JHOOT BOLA BHI HOGA TO JAISE NANCY NAY LIKHA HAY KOI MAJBOORI HO GI YA WO APP KI NARAZGI SAY DARTAY HONGAY IS LIYE KUCH BATEIN CHUPAI HOGI....BURAY WAQT MAIN DOSTOON KA SAATH CHOR DENA ....(NOTGOOD)AUR KABHI KABHI AP KO JEALOUS KARNAY KAY LIYE KUCH MAZAK KIYA TO TAKE IT EASY ...
SACHAY DOST APNAY DOST KI KHUSHI DEKHTA HAY NA KAY APNI KHUSHI....

Subject: Re: !!!*!!! Need help frm frds !!*!! 2008-06-10, 19:28

Hi Heena
well i thinks to leave a frd cox of his lies is not a good idea.
its hard to get a frd its not a relation which Allah makes it chossen by u.
if u thinks he lie to u there must be some reason. or may be u r not sure he/she did lie u. there must be some missunderstanding. and if u r sure the i will suggest to give him/her a chance.
and in friendship u guys need to be a bit flexible.
ho sakta hai assi koyi tumhari bhi baat ho jo tumhary frd ko acchi na lagi ho. n for friendship he/she has avoided it just for a sake of frdship. so u too avoide it. yaar

bye

Guest

Code:: Me nahi manta ki koi hame har bat pe jooth bolta hoga khas karke frends
agar vo jooth bolti he jese tumhe likha he " her " to vo tumhari frend nahi ho sakti
kyuki har bat pe jooth bolne vale kisike dost nahi hote. ha ak bar jooth bol sakte he
do bar bol sakte he magar bat bat pe to kabhi nahi. tum khud ko uski jagah rakh ke socho
tumhe javab mil jayega. is duniya me bahut kuch ham jo dekhte he aur sunte he usse alag hota
he. sab dekha suna pura sach ho ye har bar mumkin nahi hota. kisibhi bat ko har tarah se
dekhna chahiye. na ki sirf khud ke najariye se dekho. bure insan se sab dur bhagte he. pata
nahi kyu sab asa karte he balki khas to ase insano ko hamari jarurat hoti he. jooth bolne
vala bhi hamara hi apna hota he. use khushi nahi hoti hamse jooth bolke. uski majboori hoti
he agar ham use uske hal pe chod denge to vo jyada jooth bolega. me nahi jatan tum kis position
me ho isliye nahi kah sakta tumhe kya karna chahiye bas me sirf itna kahna chahta hu ki agar vo
tumhari dost he aur jooth bolti he to uski galtiya ko maf kardo ha magar us galtiya ko bhulna
nahi. aur agar vo tumse jooth bolti he aur dost hone ka dikhava karti he to kick her dear :)

Subject: Re: !!!*!!! Need help frm frds !!*!! 2008-06-10, 22:21

mujhko mil ja tu yakii karley parda
bigdega kya mera ab to bunn jaunga .........

:flower:

Subject: Re: !!!*!!! Need help frm frds !!*!! 2008-06-10, 22:46

:cyclops: nice answers ab heena ko clear hogaya ya nahi ...nova nay konsi language likhi hay?

Subject: Re: !!!*!!! Need help frm frds !!*!! 2008-06-11, 00:07

Thx everyone for reply n i really got wht to do...bas yahi kahugi ke if somone using You so dont let them do...aap logo ko story nahi pata hai isliye ye replys diye hope pata hota to ek hi baat hoti heena dur raho...kisine mujhe bahut acchi tarna samjha diya wht i shud do..
ur all replys was cool will alwys remember it...

ismein sab se badi baat jo aapne Note nahi ki...

Nil n Nilu frds are not only frds they r family now..
if jisko yakeen nahi unhe replys read karwa dena...

NIL & NILU ROCKS

Subject: Re: !!!*!!! Need help frm frds !!*!! 2008-06-11, 00:11

Quote :: GooD Heena Ko Uska Rly Mil Gaya. Thanks To All of U for Rlying
Keep It UP and B HappY

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